When I think of being romantic, it goes way beyond the typical candlelit dinners or sweet love letters. To me, being romantic is more about a deep, all-encompassing love for everything around us. Rumi, a poet whose wisdom I deeply admire perfectly captured this idea.
Loving Yourself and Others
Rumi said, “If I love myself, I love you. If I love you, I love myself.” For me, this means that true love starts with loving yourself. When you have a strong sense of self-love, it naturally extends to others. Loving yourself and others becomes a two-way street, creating a deep connection that’s the heart of being romantic.
A Universal Faith in Love
Another powerful thought from Rumi is, “I belong to no religion. My religion is love. My heart is my temple.” This resonates with me because it shows that love can be a spiritual practice. It’s not limited to romantic partners or specific relationships but is a way of living. Being romantic, then, is about seeing love as a universal force that guides how we treat everyone and everything.
Love as an Ability
Many people think of love as just a feeling, but I believe it’s much more than that. Rumi’s words, “Love is the bridge between you and everything,” suggest that love is something we do. It’s an ability we can develop, like a muscle that gets stronger with use. Being romantic means actively working on how we love, whether it’s being kind, patient, or simply being present for someone else.
Embracing Life with Love
For me, being romantic is about being in love with life itself. It’s about finding joy and beauty in everyday moments—the sound of rain, a good conversation, or a quiet walk in nature. It’s about appreciating the small things and seeing the world through a lens of love. This makes every day richer and more fulfilling.
Conclusion
In my view, being romantic is not just about grand gestures or special occasions. It’s about a deep, ongoing love for yourself, for others, and for life as a whole. It’s a way of living that sees love as a guiding force, an ability to be nurtured, and a universal connection that makes life beautiful. Inspired by Rumi, this is how I define being romantic.
